If it doesn’t open,it’s not your door !

If it doesn’t open,it’s not your door !

If it doesn’t open,it’s not your door !-Keep knocking and while away, the doors won’t open, because you’re not the one meant to enter them, you don’t belong there!

You have your own skill, your own eccentricity, all you need to do is discovering the same and choosing your own path. The path will lead you to the doors which you’re meant to enter. Life is correctly called a journey and each one of us is on a different journey so how come we go through the same paths and enter the same doors?

The thing that is right for us will eventually fall in our way but we got to push ourselves in the direction of finding the right thing. No efforts go in vain if they are done with zeal and determination. And the efforts done in the direction of finding what we are meant to do, where do we belong and what we are destined for never fail.

Let’s give it an honest try to find the right door, that we’re meant to enter, where we belong. Let’s do the efforts in the right direction. Let’s stop knocking the wrong doors, they’ll never open anyways!

Childhood-The Golden Phase

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Childhood-The Golden Phase

Childhood-The Golden Phase-Our best memories lie way back in time, in our childhood. Down the memory lane, are buried such little things that bring a smile on our face every time they flash in our mind and they’ll never fail to do that.

Childhood is called the golden phase. Ever thought why?

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We were so happy, so content, curious yet innocent. We were at peace deep inside. And the reasons could be many. We were happy because we knew less and were curious to know a lot. The innocence inside us never let us think any bad, we transformed every bad thing and took out its good meanings instead. The phase was golden indeed because the smiles were never fake, they were whole-hearted and were the reflection of the peace that we had in our heart mind and soul.

We never wanted more and more, even if we did, that were the things that were within our approach, like candies, chocolates or toys. The needs were innocent and gave us much more happiness that even today’s new car, new house and promotions fail to give us.

We can’t go back in time, but the least we can do is, let’s be kids again, from the heart. Let’s not kill that innocence because everything else from that golden phase has been taken away already.

Let’s keep that peace for a while!

Soup for the Soul

Feel the Old Age by Bhavik Sarkhedi

Feel the Old Age

Feel the Old Age-He struggled to earn bread for his children, now he struggles to earn bread for himself!

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What change could he witness in his life, only that while struggling for his children, he had a belief that his old age would be leisurely and now, he struggles with a tinge of pain deep down his heart that his children considers him a burden!

This is the sickest reality of mostly every third elderly person. They tirelessly work their first half of life to make their second half better but it all ends up making their second half even worse. Is this their fault? I guess it is!

Besides making the future of their own children safer and happier, one should never forget that their future is waiting for them too, and dependence on anyone in this world leads to all the worries. If we work for our children, we have every right to work for us as well. Take the time out for yourself too, because you never know when a person changes their feelings for you, even your own children are no exception. So why live wholly for them for whom you are skeptic enough whether they’ll carry your burden in future or not. Live for yourself too.

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Make time to make the future better, not only for your children but for yourself too. Make the time or the time will play against you. Than only things will be better and happy, because no matter what, no one wants to carry a burden!

Live for yourself, work for yourself too, it’s a whole future waiting for you, let’s make it beautiful!

The rest that is earned/Soup for the Soul

The rest that is earned/Soup for the Soul

The rest that is earned/Soup for the Soul!-We, the humans have a very predictable disposition. You won’t ever see a person, trying to take the toughest way out to do something. We all go for the easiest and coziest way to do almost everything. No one wants to do the hard work when it’s not needed! And this is justified as well, why take a hard-hitting when you can do things with comfort.

But is it always justified to keep oneself at rest? Is the comfort zone a better place to be? In many cases, it’s not!

The things that we strive for in life, can only be achieved if we take the arduous road, else it’s never going to be in our hands, it’ll simply slip away. Too much sticking to your comfort zone is dodgy for your own life as this will never get you success because success has this in its very nature, it comes to only those who struggle!

So, a rest is only good when it’s earned. Else, it’s just doing your own bad and spoiling your own self!

 Soup for the Soul

The Weak Point Dealer

Daughter, Not Dowry

Daughter, Not Dowry

Indian marriages, or to say, the big fat Indian marriages are famous worldwide, because it’s no less than a huge festival for the two families.

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The celebration of two families getting tied in a totally new relationship is what spreads happiness throughout the procedure of the marriage.

But our customs and our traditions have gone too far today. There used to be some merry customs of gifting one’s daughter with goodies while she moved to a whole new family and with a new person in her life. It was a way of blessing her to stay happy and satisfied and more than that, parents gifted their daughter with things that she would use for her comfort in the new house that she was going to live in.

But, sadly, this dowry system had taken its ugliest and most haunting form. The groom’s family has their hopes raised higher and higher about whatever their daughter-in-law will bring with her as dowry. They never understand, whatever she would bring, it’s not for them anyways.

Sometimes people fail to understand the feelings of a girl when she leaves her own house and family to join a whole new family which has a whole new ambience for her. Whilst she ADJUSTS in all of this, she is tortured and taunted for bringing no or less of the dowry in many cases.

What about welcoming her with open arms? She left so much for you, can’t you just make her life any simpler by adjusting yourself too? Why is she forced to bring things that she won’t even ever use? Why every time the in-laws fail to overlook the “-in-law” in their daughter-in-law?

Things would be much better if they focus on the daughter that comes in their life and not the dowry.