Udaipur – You are my Travel Inspiration for Next Solo Trip

It wasn’t usual and obvious when I decided to go Udaipur in Mid-March. Yes, it’s scorching hot out there. Why would I go and spend my weekend alone there? Nobody had an idea and I really wanted to give none a hint about it. The trip to Udaipur has been one of my memorable solo trips ever. Here’s why. As soon as I entered the bus, I got the ‘Adrenaline’ feel that something huge is coming tomorrow and with ‘huge’ I meant ‘Mammoth’. Everybody must be aware of ‘The City Palace’  and the ‘Pichola Lake’. Yes, I was going to the city of lakes and heritage. Why wouldn’t I be excited? As the solo trips go, I met people in my commuting who asked me about the reasons and purposes I travel alone and just like every single previous time I answered them the same, “You know it’s good to travel alone. You get to know yourself.”

I never realized that the usual simple stupid answer was actually the right answer to tell myself too. I travel alone and I feel good. Coming back to the wonderful city Udaipur, I (who is not a great fan of taking pictures) caught few amazing clicks (I wonder) of the beautiful corners. Few of them have been epic because I could feel ‘Varanasi’ when I entered the ‘Ghat’. Oh, that ‘Ghat’.

The Ghat, the wonderful ghat, people around me and I. I could literally see nothing else. I still don’t know what it was but it was splendid and ineffable.  People with DSLRs and the photographers go crazy about everything they see in the city.

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Udaipur also known as the “City of Lakes” or the “Kashmir of Rajasthan,” is a major city, municipal corporation and the administrative headquarters of the Udaipur district in the Indian state of Rajasthan. It is the historic capital of the kingdom of Mewar in the former Rajputana Agency. I see the culture, tradition, and Rajasthani-feel in the veins of local crowds. People from across the globe came to see the palace and they couldn’t be more delighted about it. As an Indian, I feel proud of it. They praise our country and our culture. India is a land of diverse traditions and the scenic beauty of Rajasthan fills wanderlust’s heart with pride and peace.

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When I was traveling, I could see not a single known people around me and that felt shockingly good. I talked with the tourists and guides and locals, ask them to click my pictures and they happily do it. I made many friends (Surprisingly, I am an introvert). Yeah, traveling alone has changed many significant notions about many things. You become open-minded and start loving people, places, and the world. I am sure the 2-day trip has injected so much inspiration in my head and heart that I swore to myself that I would be a world traveler someday. Exploring Udaipur is an experience I learned

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You know what peeps? You should travel alone too. Try once and I promise you won’t regret. This is my 6th Solitude venture after Goa, Vadodara, Diu,  Mahudi, and Mt.Abu.  I, undoubtedly, confirm to #SayYesToTheWorld. Do you?

Though blurred you can absolutely see the elegant look of  ‘Ghat’ in the night and the friendliness of the local guys selling ‘Chana Chol’. People are adorable and Chana Chol was delicious. Fantastical palaces, temples, havelis and countless narrow, crooked, timeless streets add the human counterpoint to the city’s natural charms.

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It is great if you had been to Venice. If not (as I have never been) and if you would like to know how it would feel like to be in such a lovely atmosphere, you may have to land in Udaipur, famously called the ‘Venice of the East’ and ‘The City of Lakes’.

To Udaipur,

Who knows what is it in you that makes you so ecstatic?
Who knows what is it in you that makes you so transparent?
Who knows what is it in you that makes you so happening?

Maybe, it’s just you with yourself.

It’s your attitude towards the people you meet
It’s your kindness to the people you talk
It’s your blessing from the people you take
It’s a grace, a gift from God you got.

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Also, Bhairavgarh Resort is a luxury resort in Udaipur is perched on top of the picturesque Aravali hills. (It was not in my budget but I wish I would stay here next time :p) You know the inspiration I was talking about? Yes, traveling inspires you to do things, to roam places, to work hard, to achieve dreams and to see every corner of the world. By the way, the image below was captured while I was driving the ‘Rented’ vehicle and I stopped by just to click the picture of the wonderful resort of Udaipur.

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While traveling back to my home, I missed Chester a lot when the lyrics murmured inside me, “I became so numb”. As the light is a spectrum. Particle or wave, as scientists explained, Udaipur proved to be that ‘Light for me. You see the window in the picture? It was the lights telling me to ‘Stay’ :p. But, seriously, ‘Jane Kya Dikh Jaye’ of Rajasthan tourism campaign justifies every single bit of it.

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Since I blog regularly and I travel frequently, I have to carry my Headphones (to keep the nuisance away) :p I wish I could travel more and far so that my next trip is in ‘Lufthansa‘ and not in ‘Bus’. 😀 😀 Call me a  solo traveller or this journey be my travel inspiration,  or me being an open-minded dude, today, I have started to love this world and life more.

To my soul and heart, this poem is for me and everyone who loves to travel.

बस यही करना चाहता हु में, अकेले दुनिया घूमना चाहता हु में
नए नए इंसानो से मिलना चाहता हु में, नई नई जगह देखना चाहता हु में
ज़िंदगी बहूत छोटी हे इसमे मे, सब कुछ देखना चाहता हु में
ख्वाहिश बहूत बड़ी हे या छोटी पता नहीं, अकेले दुनिया घूमना चाहता हु में

It translates as:

If only I could do whatever I wish, I would travel the world alone

Meeting new people and seeing new places would go on and on

Life is so short and I wish I could see every corner and nooks alone

It may seem fictitious but I wish I could travel alone on and on.

I love you, Udaipur!!!!!! I, undoubtedly, again confirm to #SayYesToTheWorld. Do you?

PS – All the pictures are clicked by me. The traveling dates were 24-25 March 2018.

One Day The Mirrors Will Become Black [Updated]

One day, writing lines or an essay won’t matter to express anything

Looks won’t make a difference & money will buy almost everything

Human emotions will become a case-study

Fresh air will be the new weed & hard to study

Sleeping pills will be a night ritual

Morning Sun will be more hot and dual

Machines will understand humans

Humans, in return, would kneel to machines

One day, only lust will exist and love will extinct

Crying loud would be the new smiling

Laughter would surpass the worth of diamond

Bitcoin will replace currency notes

Notebooks will become antique and placed in a museum

A tick of clock will become a tick of Bomb

Love letters will be a ‘What?’

Trees will no longer survive in the hot

One day, 24 hours will be way too much

A year will be lived as a decade

One Day The Mirrors Will Become Black 

No more new inventions would take place

Survival will be the first goal to place

The purpose of the living will change

The definition of life will change

The geometry of Earth will change

That one day, it will be too late to rewind anything

That one day, they would again pray for a Big Bang and everything

That one day, there would be no God to believe in our land

That one day, even the Gods would ignore humans and let it all END

-Inspired by BLACK MIRROR.

Black Mirror is a British science fiction anthology television series created by Charlie Brooker, with Brooker and Annabel Jones serving as the programme showrunners. It examines modern society, particularly with regard to the unanticipated consequences of new technologies.

Who is an Unproposed Guy?

A guy who has not been proposed by same (lol) or opposite gender. Here, the irony of the word lies in the eccentricity of it. Unproposed doesn’t at all mean he is ugly, lame, weak, or dumb. It’s just that he has not been into the focus or anyway the radius of girls’ retina.  A pessimist would say it’s all about luck :(, not me – I am a realist.

Here is how the profile (humor, totally) would look like if the hypothetical and ideal Unproposed Guy existed:

www.medium.com/@unproposedguy

Excerpts of all the failed so-close eye contacts with the beautiful girls I met and nearly all the Flopped ‘Love at First Sight’ moments, explained plainly.

Does this bio sound familiar?

It does – to me and to many millions across the world. Hehehe.

A STUPID SECOND CHANCE

Something was not right that night… I had a bad dream.

And when I woke up, my thoughts suddenly turned to her. Was she happy? I went about my monotonous existence. I got up, had my bath, dressed up for office. Work held no appeal to me anymore. My friends could not see me in that state any longer. They decided it was time for me to buckle up – to come to terms with reality. They knew I was still blaming myself for my breakup with her.

How could I not! My striving towards perfection drove her away from me. I did not realize I scared her with my hunger to things the right way always. I wanted to be the ideal boyfriend, and with time, the ideal husband. But let us face it… even Plato’s Republic failed to become reality. I should not have forgotten that “To err is Human.” With such thoughts crowding my mind every hour, minute and second of my existence, I was bound to end up in depression.

I failed to forgive myself. I failed to love her like a human should – was all I could think of. I had completely forgotten it was my birthday that day. But my friends did not. They took me for a treat later that evening to my ‘once’ favorite restaurant – the one I used to take her too very frequently. Little did I know what was in store for me… as soon as I entered the restaurant with my friends, the ground gave way beneath my feet. My head was in a spin.

She was standing in front of me. After staring for a few seconds, she came running towards me in tears. Apparently, her boyfriend was abusive. He would beat her up and also her dog. The poor dog died a few days ago. My friends came to know of the incident and invited her to my birthday party hoping for a turn in our story.

I realized what God had done that day. He gave me a Second Chance! A second chance to make things right… to start a new life. And suddenly, I became ME again. I felt it. She felt it too. And just like that, our story started again. And this time with my friends and our families in the picture too. Soon we fell in love all over again with our Perfect Imperfections. She was my finishing piece to the Jigsaw of My Life.

After a year, we got married, adopted a dog, and had a baby girl.

I felt I was the happiest and the luckiest person alive. I had a loving wife and daughter, supportive friends and family, a great job with an adorable dog – what more could I ask for! The day of our daughter’s first birthday was nearing. Seventeen days to go exactly…

She was out shopping for the big party we were planning to throw. I was at the office. Suddenly I got a call from the hospital. A truck hit her car and she was battling for her life. My world crumbled! Again! I rushed to the hospital… I held her hand, tears flowing down my eyes. Would she make it? My friends and family reached too with my daughter. And right before my very eyes, my beloved wife slipped into a COMA…

And yet, I lose again! Fate is at it again… The guiding star of my life was dimming slowly. I hugged my daughter close to me. Her pure and innocent eyes gave me hope. I saw Hope for Hope again…

NEVER ENOUGH… IS IT?

Now… where did I go wrong?

Was it me

Or was it her?

Inspired by Howard from BBT, I composed—

Sang in front of a dozen people

 

Thoda Romance aur thoda Pyaar

I gave her Space,

Love… and Time

Let her rule my wardrobe,

And my life for more than a year

Still… not enough!

 

Where DID I go wrong?

Fought with my parents,

My friends…

To be with her.

Yet Alone I walk now…

 

Bought her gifts,

Traipsed from an Activa to a Honda City

A Gorilla-Loan on my head

Yet I sit alone

In Honda City and New House

 

Where DID I go wrong?

I remembered her Birthday

Our Anniversary… and

Her dog’s birthday too!

Enough, it was not…

 

Sans girlfriend…

Sans friends.

Maa shouts – “Told you so!”

“You left us for the wrong one” – friends say.

Neigh! Enough, it will never be…

 

Where DID I go wrong?

“I do not love you anymore”

said she…

And went out the door.

To another man’s arms.

 

Bleak world… no laughter

No sugar, no spice, or anything nice.

Everything I did for you,

For us…

Not enough.

 

Will it ever be Enough?

Does a Second Chance await me?

I walk the lonely road now…

 

Who was I?

Who am I now?

“Do you remember me?”

“I used to buy roses for my girlfriend everyday.”

“No.” – said the flower vendor…

 

Lost… to the tides of time.

Lost… to the tides of a broken heart.

I work. For whom?

I breathe. For whom?

Lost… For eternity?

 

I do not know,

How to smile anymore.

The world is dark,

Without you in it.

The Star has fallen…

 

A rudderless boat…

Will it ever reach the shore?

 

Maybe I am IT!

The mistake…

Was I trying too much?

“Man, you were too good for her.”

Friends murmur…

 

I lost. My perfectionist attitude.

It drove her away,

While striving towards perfection,

I lost my senses…

The small things always matter!

 

Beauty lies in Imperfection.

A victim to the Ideal.

My wounds… would you heal?

Ever?

What do you think?

 

The Unproposed Guy…

Will he be proposed to again?

 

Huffing and Puffing…

I ran after Perfection.

Not realizing…

I was spiraling down the stairs,

Fast!

 

People!

Forget Yourself Not,

While giving love…

While living life…

Be Imperfectly Perfect.

 

I see light…

I see hope…

I see her…

I see a second chance…

I hope for hope…

 

I walk the lonely road… do I?

 

P.S. Stay tuned to The Unproposed Guy. Who knows what life may offer to him next!